My uncle‘s dog is sitting comfortably on our front lawn, waiting patiently for his owner. The dog accompanies him wherever he goes. When he goes to our house everyday to chat with my dad (as if it has been a long time since they last saw each other, they just never run out of things to talk about), the dog sits on our lawn, observing the surroundings or sometimes taking a nap while the siblings continue to bond. It’s such a nice picture, my dad and uncle laughing out loud on the porch and a furry friend on the lawn.
It would have been a pretty normal thing to have the dog around but not today. It’s my uncle’s birthday.
My mom had goosebumps when she saw the dog sitting comfortably there, it has been a long time since my uncle’s buddy did that. Dad said that it reminds him of the times when he and his younger brother would spend time together talking about anything under the sun. No, they did not have any falling out of any sorts, they remained the best of friends. But then my uncle has left, the Big C took him away. 😦
The diagnosis came out in 2011, it was summer. None of us expected that someone full of life, always laughing, energetic, rarely gets a cold, and still at the prime of his life, in fact has an illness called Prostate Cancer. It’s already in the late stage. According to WebMD, “Prostate cancer is typically a very slow growing tumor, often causing no symptoms until it is in an advanced stage.” That’s exactly what happened to him. The cancer has metastasized to his bones, at first affecting his mobility and then later on his whole body. It was painful to see him go through such suffering, his energy depleting each passing day.
I can still vividly recall the last time we visited him at the hospital, his eyes were dull, gone was the spark and the teasing glint. His sadness permeates, his hands holding on to the railing of the hospital bed, as if trying to hold on to life. The atmosphere that day seemed so heavy, that even the hospital elevator felt like it was grieving. A few days later, less than a year since the diagnosis, he left us.
We miss him very much. He may no longer be physically present but he will always stay in our hearts.
I strongly agree with the person who said that, “Love is stronger than death even though it can’t stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries, it can’t separate people from love. It can’t take away our memories either. In the end, life is stronger than death.”