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Take the Stairs, Don’t Quit

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Success is sweet. But behind every success is a story.

When you have a goal, you give your best to reach it; sometimes you do, sometimes you don’t. What happens when you experience a delay or a negative result? Do you stop and surrender?

Success isn’t achieved overnight. It is a product of both small and big decisions and actions.

Even if we live in a world of technological advancements, success is still not being served with the flick of your fingers. You have to take the stairs if you want to get to the top. Don’t quit at the first signs of adversity. Don’t turn around when you “fail”. Sometimes, it’s not a failure but a mere delay in your time line. These instances happen, not because you are weak or you don’t deserve it, BUT because your character is being shaped to prepare you for the next chapter.

Don’t give up when you face a mountain. Climb over it. Walk around it. Keep on moving.

Go ahead, take the stairs, one step at a time. Before you know it, you have reached the top. Be in faith.

Be blessed and be a blessing.


Life’s Lessons From a Ball

English: Former basketball player Michael Jordan

English: Former basketball player Michael Jordan (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Basketball isn’t just something you play for fun. It’s something you feel. All you have to do is believe in yourself and put the ball into the basket. You have to try and dare to win. If you discourage yourself you’re only going to fail. But if you try, if you believe in yourself, if you practice and work your butt off to become the best. And you show your opponent that you’re sure of what you do, you win the game the second you step on the court.

Just Do It.

– From Nike

Basketball is one sport that I love to watch. The excitement, suspense and adrenalin rush that you experience when watching games with scores too close for comfort, really keeps you alert. Every second counts, every shot matters, every possession is important, every play can make a difference and every decision can affect the outcome.

The quote is right, basketball is indeed something you feel. It is more than a ball game. It is more than an entertainment. Basketball is filled with lessons, and not just technical rules on basketball but things that you can apply in life.

Here are some musings from watching basketball:

-Be prepared.

You cannot come to the game without training and practice, chances are, you are going to lose big time. The same is true in life, you have to prepare for whatever task or goal that you need to accomplish.

-Arrive earlier than the scheduled game

Players have to warm up before the actual game to avoid injuries and make sure they are in proper condition to play. It’s part of the preparation. In life, you have to be early or be left out.

-Focus on the “NOW”

The last game is already a thing of the past and so is the last shot, the last play, etc., players focus on the present moment because it is what matters. Yes you have to learn from past mistakes, but that’s it, the keyword is LEARN and not dwell. Yes you have to look forward to the future, but it is not here yet and what you do right now is going to affect that. In basketball and in life, if you focus too much on your past failures/mistakes and keep on anticipating the future, you are not going to get anywhere, focus on the “NOW”, learn from your mistakes but move on.

-Every second counts

Anything can happen in 28 seconds, even in 3 seconds. Make every moment count. 🙂

-You cannot please everyone

You’re definitely going to have supporters and critics. It is important to have a strong grasp of who you really are, to know your purpose and God’s design for you so that you will not break. Improve on what needs improvement but do not be discouraged over negative things or comments.

-The ball is round

You don’t know what’s going to happen, but no matter what the outcome may be, remember that God has better plans. His ways are better than ours. Be thankful for the opportunity and look forward to what He has in store. 🙂

-Do not lose hope

Just when you think it’s over, the tide turns, or rather the ball game changes and you’re on the lead, so up to the very last moment, do not waver. Keep the faith alive. 🙂

-There is a time for everything

As stated in Ecclesiastes, “For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.” You may not be the champion but what’s important is that you played your best, fair and square. Perhaps it’s just not your season BUT never ever give up, you’re going to have your moment to shine. 🙂

And in closing I’d like to quote the greatest player of all time, Michael Jordan, “Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.”


Broken Strings

Broken guitar strings

Broken guitar strings (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

People can pull strings and tap their connections to get what they want, to succeed, to get to the top without ever considering the consequences of their actions or the values being compromised in the process of doing so. Sad but true, this is the way of the world, in a dog-eat-dog-world where the competition is fierce, there are those who chose to take the wider path and not the narrow road. In this day and age where it seems everything is served in an instant, from coffee to dinner, there are people who want to get instant fame, instant success, instant glory. But then again, will a person really be truly happy at the end of each day knowing that all those fame, those success, and everything else attached to his/her name has all been due to some strings that have been pulled, not because of hard work and dedication, will there be happiness? For some who have been blinded by the lies they have built, when their lies become their truth, this scenario of pulling strings no longer matter, it’s a by hook-or-by-crook way of living for them; forget the consequences, forget the values, forget what is right. Would you want to be like them?

There is the narrow path, the path less traveled, the path that is not of the world. When you serve a great God, His grace is overwhelming, that long before you have asked for something, it has already been given to you, your story written beautifully; making your success more fulfilling, for His will is always good, pleasing and perfect. You do not have to worry or fear that you will not succeed because the world is telling you that you will not make it, instead, continue to strive, to give your best and most of all to have faith. For “Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours” (Mark 11:24).

Choose the narrow path and don’t be tempted to take the shortcut for when the strings have been broken, and the lies you have believed for so long begin to take their toll on you, where will that leave you? When the world expects you to fail, remain steadfast in your faith, hold on and never give up because “With man this is impossible, but not with God; all things are possible with God”(Mark 10:27).


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Dandelion clock (Taraxacum officinale) For mor...

Dandelion clock (Taraxacum officinale) For more translations SEE BELOW (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

The clock ticks, the paper remains empty, not a single word, not a single thought; ideas seem to be evasive, hibernating within the deepest recesses of the mind.

Have you ever experienced that? Perhaps.

But what if the scenario is that you are supposed to prepare for your major exams, read books and reviewers, listen to lectures but you find yourself drifting, losing focus and becoming sleepy? You know it’s a necessary step in order to pass those tests, to help you achieve your dream, to get you through that make or break situation but it is as if you are not in the moment, you are physically present but you are “not really there”. What do you do about it?

1. Pray

Seek the grace of God in everything that you do. As American football quarterback Tim Tebow said, “Regardless of what happens, I still honor my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, because at the end of the day, that’s what’s important, win or lose.”

2. Write down your goals

When you see your goals in print, it seems to come to life. It also helps you to be reminded of what you are working hard for.

3. Be clear about your purpose – it will fuel your drive to succeed.

Remind yourself why you want to achieve your goal. The “WHY” plays a very important role in achieving what you have set for yourself, your purpose motivates you to succeed.

4. Learn from successful individuals.

Prior to the achievement of  Roger Bannister, the first person to break four-minute mile in 1952, people thought it impossible to achieve such speed but that myth was proven wrong, and after that others followed. Take inspiration from people who succeed because they will not belittle your dreams or tell you it is impossible.

5. Set a time table and stick to it.

Most people work well when they have a deadline while others become rattled by it, observe yourself and know what’s best for you. It won’t hurt to set a time table to track your progress.

6. Don’t exhaust yourself. Take breaks.

Learn to listen to your body, it will not do you any good if you overexert yourself, instead of being productive it will only hinder your progress when you get sick, so allow yourself to take a break.

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Be inspired by the following quotes:

Something in human nature causes us to start slacking off at our moment of greatest accomplishment.  As you become successful, you will need a great deal of self-discipline not to lose your sense of balance, humility, and commitment.  ~Ross Perot

Success without honor is an unseasoned dish; it will satisfy your hunger, but it won’t taste good.  ~Joe Paterno

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.’ We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we’re liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. ~Marianne Williamson

Try to discover
The road to success
And you’ll seek but never find,
But blaze your own path
And the road to success
Will trail right behind.
~Robert Brault


Never Give Up

The 1992 Olympic Games witnessed a touching scene when Derek Anthony Redmond tore his hamstring while competing for the 400 meter sprint. Instead of staying lying down or being carried by the paramedics he chose to continue the race. His father who saw his son in pain rushed to the track to help his son, together they continued and Derek Redmond finished the race with a standing ovation. Due to his injury he was no longer able to compete in the same sport but with the encouragement of his father, he tried other sports and succeeded. 20 years after the touching moment, Jim Redmond, Derek’s father, has been chosen to carry the Olympic flame in the 2012 London Olympics.

In life there are instances when you may feel like giving up, DON’T quit, continue the journey, continue the fight. It doesn’t matter whether you finish first or you finish last, what matters is that you continued to move forward despite the hurdles and remember that you have a Father up above who will aid you, who will come to help you finish the race if you let Him. 🙂

Disclaimer: I do not own the video or the song. It is something I found on YouTube that is worth sharing.